Privacy.
Last updated 24 April 2026.
Ingle is built to be small and legible. The same goes for what we know about you.
What we collect
- The email, handle, display name, and password hash you enter at sign-up.
- Anything you post — tribes, posts, replies, endorsements, vouches, bookmarks, reactions, profile text, uploaded images.
- Lettersyou write — recipient list, delivery timestamp, seal choice, and body. Held sealed until delivery; treated like 1:1 DMs (encrypted at rest, operators don't read, disclosed only under valid legal process).
- Gift dedications — the recipient user id you address a post to. Rendered publicly on the post.
- Open-to signals— the optional glyphs you set in profile settings (friendship, romance, mentorship, etc.), the visibility mode you chose (quiet / visible), and the allow-list of people you've explicitly let see them. This is sensitive: it can indicate relationship-seeking intent. We store it only because you asked us to, we never sell or share it, and you can remove it entirely at any time.
- Slow Room visit records — a per-user timestamp the first time you click into an opened episode or chapter. Used to unlock reply counts once you've taken the “no-spoilers” handshake.
- In-silence state— if you enter retreat mode, the return timestamp you set and the optional short public note (“back in a week”) are stored on your user row. The note is shown to anyone visiting your profile so they know not to expect a reply; clearing silence removes both values.
- Session and theme preferences, stored in cookies. No third-party advertising cookies.
- Server logs (IP, user agent, timestamp) for a rolling 30 days so we can debug outages and investigate abuse.
We don't track you across other sites. We don't run analytics that report anything identifiable off-platform.
How we use it
- To show you the parts of Ingle you're entitled to see.
- To send transactional emails: welcome, verification, password reset, sign-in codes.
- To spot and stop abuse.
- To improve Ingle — changes are informed by looking at aggregate patterns, not individuals.
We do not sell your data, train commercial AI on it, or hand it to advertisers.
Third parties we rely on
Running a web platform means trusting a handful of vendors. They each see only what their job requires.
- Cloudflare — DNS, edge caching, Turnstile bot protection. Sees IP + request metadata.
- Hetzner — server hosting. Sees the ciphertext of everything; never your data directly.
- Self-hosted Supabase — database + storage, runs on our servers.
- Cloudflare R2 — image storage for avatars, banners, and post images.
- Postal (self-hosted) — outbound transactional email.
Cookies
- ingle_session — your sign-in, 30 days, httpOnly.
- ingle_theme — your light/dark/auto pick, 1 year.
- ingle_partial_auth — 10 minutes, only during 2FA sign-in.
- ingle_pending_invite — 24h, only if you followed an invite link without signing in.
No analytics, advertising, or tracking cookies. Full stop.
Your rights
You can see, correct, and delete your data at any time. The whole account goes via settings; a full JSON export is one click from the same page. If GDPR or similar applies to you, these rights are yours under law too.
Retention
We keep your data as long as your account exists. When you delete the account, we wipe the rows and the media objects within seconds — including any letters you'd queued for a future delivery, which are cancelled before they ever reach the recipient. Server logs age out after 30 days. Postal delivery logs (which show we sent an email, not its contents) age out after 14 days.
Kids
Ingle isn't for under-16s. If we learn an account belongs to someone younger we'll remove it.
Contact
Privacy questions, data requests, complaints: hello@ingle.social.